Amber St. Germain | Somatic + Sex Therapist

Testimonials

From Shame to Liberation: How I Transformed My Relationship with Sexuality, Sensuality, and Pleasure

"Amber helped me break free from the cage of sexual repression I had been living in made of shame and sex negativity I had absorbed from the culture and family I grew up in. Before working with Amber, I was unaware of what was causing me to be shut down sexually. I have a low sex drive and even find sex painful at times. Now I am much more connected to my body, and sensuality and pleasure are flowing freely. I finally get to experience what I want and enjoy my life more fully."

A.J., Orlando, Florida

Breaking Free: From Stagnation to Success

Read about one of Amber's clients who felt trapped in their living situation and career but found the courage to make a significant change through their sessions with her.

“I felt stuck in my living situation and career for a long time before working with Amber. I owned a house in the Bay Area of California where the neighborhood was becoming more toxic each year. I couldn't see a way out, and my health was suffering. What I really wanted to do was to move to the Sacramento area, live close to nature, and pursue my dream job of photographing wildlife. This did not seem like an option at all at the time due to complicated circumstances in my life until I underwent several Inherited Family Trauma sessions with Amber. Within a few months of doing this work, my life changed dramatically, and I was able to sell my house for a good price and move to a new city where I started a new business doing my dream job, which has flourished. Thank you, Amber!” J. N., Sacramento, CA, Photographer

“Amber St. Germain is a powerful woman full of compassion and a lifetime of initiatory experience. She is able to hold a rare multi-dimensional field of transformation for those who are blessed to work with her.”

Felice Laurel

Teacher of IFT and Tantric Dance

Ashland, Oregon

Navigating Addiction: A Story of Healing

Join the incredible journey of a woman who found hope and healing through Amber's Inherited Family Trauma (IFT) work amidst her son's battle with addiction. Discover how this powerful therapy not only saved her son's life but transformed her own, offering relief from constant fear and guiding them both toward recovery.

"When I came to Amber and Inherited Family Trauma work, I was desperate. My teenage son was addicted to heroin and had almost died several times. I was praying constantly for his life and for myself when I found IFT. The stress of my son’s addiction and his tentative hold on life was so great it nearly killed me, and I had become ill myself. I had been going to Alanon but had felt little relief from the constant fear that he would not survive his addiction much longer. The first time I worked with Amber, I cried a lot and felt a huge relief. Within days, my son spontaneously went into treatment and got sober. This was something I had been begging him to do for years. It has been a long road, but I can confidently say that my son has almost 2 years of sobriety in recovery now and he is thriving. I have continued to work with Amber and do IFT work and have found this work to be an incredible boon in my life in so many ways. I truly believe my son and I may not have survived his addiction without it. I am eternally grateful for Amber and this incredibly powerful work." Name withheld by request

Empowering Women Through Personal Growth and Relationship Coaching

"Amber St. Germain is fully committed to excellence and health and brings to her one-of-a-kind educational work a wisdom and a savoir-faire that is held by few others. Amber’s loving, supportive, and insightful approach helps her to coach people toward their heart’s desires and a life that not only serves them but others as well. She deeply understands the spirit of a woman and helps women to find their voice in creating a relationship that is nourishing and supportive.”

Patrice Carrington
Hypnotherapist and Health and Sleep Coach
Ashland, OR

"I had so much performance anxiety that it just never seemed to happen for me."

Breaking Free: A Journey of Sexual Healing and Personal Growth

Delve into the transformative journey of a person who overcame deep sexual shame which was the result of a strict religious upbringing. They went from completely avoiding relationships to having a thriving sex life intertwined with personal growth.

“Before working with Amber, my sexual issues and repression were so severe that I was never able to consummate a relationship with a woman. In fact, I avoided women and dating to prevent embarrassment or awkward situations. Even so I was an attractive guy, and women wanted to date me and have sex with me, I was so sexually repressed from my religious background, insecure, and very inexperienced sexually." “When I finally got married in my 30s, we thought the issue would resolve on its own, and I believed my gorgeous and sexually experienced wife would be able to seduce me and teach me what I needed to know. Unfortunately, that did not happen, and my wife ended up being demanding and resentful. We had a very unhappy and unconsummated marriage for over 20 years. After she died of cancer, I decided to finally address my sexual and self-esteem issues, whch got worse during my marriage. That's when I found Amber and her incredible work and took responsibility for my sexual issues, and committed to working on them. What I realized is that my issues were not just about sex. They were about my self-esteem and confidence. Working on this has led me on an incredible journey of personal growth and self-actualization in every area of my life. My life is much richer, fuller, more exciting, and adventurous now than I could have imagined before working with Amber. I am also happy to report that I now have a full, rich, and deep sex life that is an important part of my spiritual path and personal growth. I can't imagine what my life would be like if I hadn't decided to commit to this journey of healing and work with Amber, and I don't want to. It’s sad to think of all the men out there who use porn as a replacement for a real sexual and spiritual relationship. If you're on the fence about working with Amber and investing in this area of your life, I can tell you without reservation it's worth it 100 times over. As long as you are willing to take responsibility and do your part, you won't be disappointed in the results.” J.M., Author, Investor Asheville, NC

Foundational Support: How Amber Strengthened My Practice and Personal Journey

“Amber helped me through my own personal process and the questions I had both in regard to my personal life and my work in the world. She stressed ethics and personal integrity and is masterful in creating initiations and rituals. My work with Amber was a foundational element of the thriving practice I now have.”

T.M., Santa Cruz, CA
Massage Therapist and Relationship Coach

A Journey to Sexual Liberation and Healing

Read about how one of Amber's clients sought to address erectile dysfunction (ED), leading to a transformative journey that delved into deeper societal norms, introduced tantric perspectives on sex, and utilized family constellation therapy to achieve profound healing and transformation in the realm of sexuality and relationships.

“I came to Amber seeking help with erectile dysfunction, which had plagued me throughout my life. I wanted to solve that issue so that if the opportunity to date and begin a new relationship came up, I could show up in a confident and secure way. What I received from Amber St. Germain’s coaching and coursework was much more than that." "Amber helped me understand that sex is much more than function and performance. Much of my dysfunction came from my assumptions of negative societal norms, including shame, guilt, and unrealistic and idealized fantasies. I was introduced to the tantric view of sex, which emphasizes pleasure and spiritual connection, combined with practical rituals and protocols about sensual energy generation and conservation. She also identified my reliance on porn as a key factor in my inability to maintain an erection and be present, relax into, and fully enjoy the sexual experience. Amber also introduced me to the healing power of family constellation work. Family constellation therapy focuses on identifying key traumatic incidents in your family history and connecting them to your current behaviors. The dynamics of your current family interactions may well be the product of generations of unexamined and unresolved pain that keeps repeating itself over time. We are not conscious of the strong hold this unresolved trauma has on our lives. For me, identifying the disruptive events of my own and my wife's family truly accelerated my overall healing and had an extremely positive effect on my sexual issues. While Amber’s practice focuses on women’s empowerment and sexual and relationship mastery, her unique and powerful combination of therapeutic modalities can also be applicable to men. Make no mistake: this work can be challenging and difficult, but Amber is with you every step of the way, and the results are transformative and completely worth it. I am honored to recommend her work without hesitation or reservation.” C.M., Banking Charlotte